From My Heart

  

Never, ever, lie to the one you love more than life itself. It's just not worth it. Ever. Not a little lie. Not a big lie. Don't. Even if you think what you are doing is trying to keep your relationship together, don't. It will tear it apart. To love someone, truly love someone, that once in a lifetime love, a love that consumes you, and to not be able to spend your life with them...is hell. Complete hell. All you want to do is go home and hold her and tell her everything is going to be ok, but you can't. Losing that, and the pure joy of six wonderful children, is hell. Always tell her the truth. Even if it makes things bad for a little bit, at least she still trusts in you to be honest with her. I know these things as a fact, because I am the one in hell.